MarathonMarathon, marathonmarathon@lemmy.world

While not as common as before AF would scream out loud in public and on dating apps in all caps they do not date AM as if that gives them some sort of additional social status. In the bay it is rewarded because of tech bros, extreme competition, and treating dating like job prospects. If you’re in an area with 60% men the competition will be fierce and any sort of edge is used to get the advantage. My theory for why it happened at a much more exponential rate compared to say SoCal or Vegas is that the majority of the Asian men here did not do the one thing that minimizes this: muscles and style. The majority of AF here open to AM go for fit AM as if you need fitness to offset some sort of inferior racial bs.

Here just in case Reddit goes to the shitter so we’ll have a place to go.