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I like how Anne Hathaway is used for corporate HR memes.
She’s 27, I mentioned it in the other post that I referenced. But Yes, I should’ve clarified it for those who won’t see the other post.
I don’t know why this is not letting me edit the original. So here’s some additional context/info
EDIT: One thing I would like to also add, is that she has a problem with intimacy that I also couldn’t really understand. Even though during our moments things were fine, we communicate (although I had to work on this in our early days as well), afterwards, she tells me that she feels guilty and regrets it even. In her talks, where she mentioned that she doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore, she told me that the first time we were intimate, it was a favor from her to me, and that she was desperate to be in a place because she didn’t have one for herself yet… This, honestly, hit me like a truck… all those moments that I cherished so deeply, they were nothing to her. And again, I don’t think she truly meant it. I just don’t believe people are evil like that. The way I think, is that she really needs help and support. And I wanted to be with her in this journey, support her, understand her. But if that means that I can’t be with her anymore, so be it, I guess. I just wish that there was another way.
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Reminded me of this
Oh my god I feel sad for the pet
I like how Anne Hathaway is used for corporate HR memes.
She’s 27, I mentioned it in the other post that I referenced. But Yes, I should’ve clarified it for those who won’t see the other post.
What does it mean when your gf says she doesn't want to be intimate, but then becomes intimate, and then afterwards reverts back to saying that it was a bad idea.
So I [M30] recently got out of a relationship [with F27]. You can check my post about it on my profile.
I don’t know why this is not letting me edit the original. So here’s some additional context/info
EDIT: One thing I would like to also add, is that she has a problem with intimacy that I also couldn’t really understand. Even though during our moments things were fine, we communicate (although I had to work on this in our early days as well), afterwards, she tells me that she feels guilty and regrets it even. In her talks, where she mentioned that she doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore, she told me that the first time we were intimate, it was a favor from her to me, and that she was desperate to be in a place because she didn’t have one for herself yet… This, honestly, hit me like a truck… all those moments that I cherished so deeply, they were nothing to her. And again, I don’t think she truly meant it. I just don’t believe people are evil like that. The way I think, is that she really needs help and support. And I wanted to be with her in this journey, support her, understand her. But if that means that I can’t be with her anymore, so be it, I guess. I just wish that there was another way.
Well... She broke up with me... again.
tl;dr: she [F27] cheated on me [M30] with a one night stand, I forgave her, but I guess she wanted to leave the relationship any ways and just be alone. I didn’t try as much to stop her this time, I could see that she doesn’t love me in the same way anymore. I just wanted to vent.
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