archaeholic, archaeholic@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Super cute! I love that pattern, it reminds me of old Dutch pottery :)

The first dress with the slit is my fave! I would wear the hell outta that one.

I feel like the second dress could use something in the middle to break it up a little bit. Like a belt or a long necklace. Otherwise it is very cute.

The pink one is so elegant and looks wonderful on you! I would wanna wear heels with it. Off the shoulder cuts are to die for :)

Honestly I let spite take over when I get like that. There’s too many people on my list of obituaries I need to see before I die. And I’m not going to let a world that doesn’t want me dictate what I do with my life. I don’t have hope that I can fully reclaim the life I deserved to live. I don’t have hope that I will fully recover from the traumas I’ve faced, or that some sort of justice will befall the ones who have wronged me or stolen parts of me.

But I do have hope that by still persisting, even if fueled by nothing other than spite, maybe my life can be the inspiration for another trans person to also persist. Maybe even saving them from some of the struggles I’ve encountered.

And if I can ruin some transphobes day just by existing, well that’s just a bonus.

Had a man go out of his way to open a door for me as I left a store today and not like a he was already walking in as I was walking out kind of thing. He was sitting at a table nearby and got up and opened the door for me. That’s the first time that’s happened and made me realize that I’m definitely unprepared to be getting attention from men lol

But I just love when people are nice. I remember every time early in my transition when someone gendered me correctly or just went the extra step to let me know they were cool and I was safe and seen.

Thanks, girl!!!

Uhmmm…could you send me that subway meme?

All I got was a prolonged period and I wanted to fight everyone around me :’(