My boy mode keeps getting less and less convincing… and I love it lol
It does make me feel like I should probably hurry up and finish coming out to everyone who doesn’t know yet, before people start figuring it out on their own 😬
It’s so scary, isn’t it?! I’m sorry to hear your friends haven’t been supportive, you definitely deserve better
I’ve been very fortunate that everyone I’ve come out to so far has been really positive and supportive. But I also started with all the “easy” ones: my queer and progressive friends, my therapist, etc. And I still have to figure out how to manage coming out to my conservative Catholic family, and at work.
I feel like I’m spending so much time agonizing over what might happen, I just need to have it be done so I can deal with whatever actually does end up happening
I started out with my safe ones as well. I’m really priveledged that I already had such amazing supportive friends and most of my family. Julia, I hope that you’re able to find better IRL friends or that your existing friends come around.
dam that sucks… i was lucky enough to not really have any friends before and now almost everyone i hang out with is trans or queer lol. definitely worried to tell my parents though. i dont think theyre going to take it well.
I was wearing sports bras because going down the stairs hurt and still had only come out to 3 people at work. Lots has changed in the years since then though.
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My boy mode keeps getting less and less convincing… and I love it lol
It does make me feel like I should probably hurry up and finish coming out to everyone who doesn’t know yet, before people start figuring it out on their own 😬
Same, but coming out is so hard. I haven’t had a single good reaction, and a few horrible ones, I need new friends 😫
It’s so scary, isn’t it?! I’m sorry to hear your friends haven’t been supportive, you definitely deserve better
I’ve been very fortunate that everyone I’ve come out to so far has been really positive and supportive. But I also started with all the “easy” ones: my queer and progressive friends, my therapist, etc. And I still have to figure out how to manage coming out to my conservative Catholic family, and at work.
I feel like I’m spending so much time agonizing over what might happen, I just need to have it be done so I can deal with whatever actually does end up happening
I started out with my safe ones as well. I’m really priveledged that I already had such amazing supportive friends and most of my family. Julia, I hope that you’re able to find better IRL friends or that your existing friends come around.
dam that sucks… i was lucky enough to not really have any friends before and now almost everyone i hang out with is trans or queer lol. definitely worried to tell my parents though. i dont think theyre going to take it well.
I was wearing sports bras because going down the stairs hurt and still had only come out to 3 people at work. Lots has changed in the years since then though.
If it’s anything like me, half the people in your social circle you “boy mode” around already suspect. 😆
cant wait for the day i fail at boymoding :3 itll make it so much easier to pull off tomboy
Considering how bad transfems are at judging their own appearance, that day might be closer than you think
Ayo you’re pulling off tomboys? I got some people who’d like to meet
i started malefailing at like 6 months in
some day i will finally manage to put on some fat, and then WOO BABY i’ll actually start looking more fem :3
Boy mode can get pinned. Cova cradle and spladle are neat moves. Grow the sport.
My partners mother literally said “well there were signs” when they told her i was trans. I am still so confused as to what she meant with this.
insert it should have been me meme